I can simpatize with Mike because I am sure he didnt give a detail reason of his Child support issue mentioned, First all. I had to go to 2 different police stations and finally an officer agreed to write an incident report. All while going back more and more for child support, medical, etc , all while not working at all, but not caring about the fact that he has to live at poverty level and can barely afford to have them and do things with them. In general, there are two ways to enforce a child custody or visitation order: with police intervention or through the court with a Motion to Enforce. When your childs last tooth fell out, did you play tooth fairy and have the cash to do so? In general, there are two ways to enforce a child custody or visitation order: with police intervention or through the court with a Motion to Enforce. I went to visit my kids and I did a lot of researching and verifying with the County PD of where I was visiting. Can I call the police and have them escort me to her house so I can get my kids? I wasnt upset about not being with my husband at all although I felt bad for the kids a little, but they were so young and didnt notice his absence all too much. My ex violated that multiple times and isnt even informing me of our childrens medical needs. Additional Public Prosecutor Amit Sahni, representing the state, sought direction the Gaur couple to pay Rs 10,64,055 towards the expenses or salaries of guards deployed with them during their . You have to give every opprtunity and if that then fails you can address it in court. I just want my son to be safe and I truly believe he isnt in the best of hands with his mother. Yeah, but what happens if the mother changes her name and your sons name in a sealed name change, and disappears. that county has jurisdiction of that minor of course unless he lies to the court. In one occasion we got into arguement and moved out of his house told him I was leaving to Florida to be by my family side. Kids are allowed to call dad anytime. Oh my Goodness. Thats the way the courts want it. There's a newly designated spot in Thibodaux to make online purchase and child custody exchanges a lot safer, police said. We have an attorney but cant reach her . How many nights lately have you been woken up multiple times because of your childs nightmares? He has already told mom that he is taking the kids on a trip that per the Court Order, he cannot. I cannot get it out of my head. Instead, the custodial parent must seek a custody modification and provide evidence that spending time with you is harmful for the child. Alberto Morales, 42, somehow obtained a sharp object and stabbed one of the officers once in the neck and three times in the back Monday night outside a Walmart in Grapevine, Texas, police said. I havent seen my daughter in 2 months. Now today she demands us to bring the child to her today! There is, however, a disconnect between theory and practice. Mom places son in a mentor (father-like) program on Saturday afternoons, dad must take son to meet a man that then takes him to walk the mall and have lunch for 1 1/2 to 2 hours out of the 8 he is given for his visit. How do I go about not sending her anymore what do I do ?Now when he is ready to be a dad he flosses that support order around.. Not to mention he owes me like 10,000 back pay he doesnt pay his child support.. What do I do???? The officer returned fire, striking the suspect in the leg. fisrt she lied and made me feel like we was going to work out our issuses and get a apartment together . He threatens her and uses intimidation to get around the custody agreement, which we would like to enforce reasonably (give him a Saturday every second week and an evening or something). In my case, it does apply to me as a father. But they have not set any contact up, which states in the court order. I THINK I JUST FELT A BRICK OFF MY HEART. His father lives in Illinios. now he and her husband and getting a divorce and she took him out of school and hes been with us for the past 2 weeks. He abuses drugs and sells them. And just like every other bill you put off until its shut off, youll continue this route because nobody else knows right? Three weeks ago my 11 year old son had to be disciplined for being disrespectful to me and when his mother found out she called the sheriff to investigate. How in the world do you know what anyone does with their time? Can anyone suggest anything else I can do, to help me. Finally you will both go to get the child(ren) and three things will occur, 1 The mother can deny the visitation and the police CANNOT obtain the child(ren) Most of us Dads were involved in our kids lives before a divorce took place and dealt with all of the above. Police stations are public places, and it is the responsibility of officers to protect and to serve. I dont mean to be pesimistic, because I am going throught the same thing right this second. I plan to get an attorney, im sick of him thinking he has some power of my 15 old daughter that hates to be with him! The only way to stop this is to find a way for your step daughter to spend as much time with your husband as possible, and some kind of order that limits moms power to sit back and encourage such disrespectful behavior. so what I did was went to family court and filled a petition for enforcement. Would you yourself want to be that child that was released from your care to only be beaten, yelled at , ignored or possibly killed by another individual hat you have been repeatedly told was your mother or father? Copyright 2023, Thomson Reuters. I honestly feel like ending this pain. I would like to know if any mother was put in jail for playing around with visitation, the way men are routinely put in jail for not paying state sponsored extortion payments, To Mike.Extortion payments????? Most of the time these problems occur when you are going through your divorce or are newly divorced. Your ex is going to start alienating your child from you. Not calling the police resulted in my boyfriend losing his split parenting time with his children, he went from getting them for six months out of a year down to just two, Hi my name is Frank,and my situation is slightly different due to my sons grandfather is a ex police officer and a county 911 dispatch officer I was a stay at home dad and for the first 3 yrs of my sons life I was dad and mom she wanted nothing to do with my son and was always attacking me with hands and weapons Ive been trying to get to find a way to get help from the law or someone but Ive been harrast by The local police and the county officers so where do I go, Im pretty sure that y son has been molested by someone and again I get no help from anyone of authority due to her fathers pull with the local police or dcfs so if you have any information please contact me at shetland1.fa@gmail.com I would so appreciate it!!!! If you have a court order that says overnights are allowed, then just ignore your ex and give him back your son when the overnight is over. Hi, I am married for almost 6 years and recently separated from my wife. Why cant they have a mother who allows herself to splurge on things like mascara and yoga pants that dont have holes in them, instead of knowing she has to put every penny towards her children? I I CANT AFFORD AN ATTORNEY 250 AN HOUR LEGAL ACTION HELP. An go from there it takes a few court days but its worth it an they assign u a attorney for free if u cant afford one ..good luck may god bless your situation. These psychopaths feed and play on emotions and last minute changes in an effort to create chaos and confusion. When is the last time you trimmed tiny little fingernails? I hope youre getting help but you sound as if youre as oppressed as can be. Most of the time things get better when the dust settle and everybody falls into a post-divorce routine. Its his grandmother that wants to keep him from me and his dad goes along because thats what his mom wants and shes a hatful woman. Court order is clear- kids go with dad every other Saturday and Sunday 9:30-6:30; mom is not to interfere or even call kids during dads time. I have complained many times to the local authority, and to the M.P. This is why people work outside the law. Supervised by the local authority or third party or contact centre for 4 hours once a week . I truly have nobody informing me of my rights nor helping me prepare or upholding my rights as a father. Currently my mother sends me money in order to help me make ends meet since my exs child support payments are inconsistent at best. Ok i need help asap . I cant believe some peopleSorry to hear you all are going through this kind of stuff. My question is will they give him full custody or will he get in trouble cause hes been violating our order and playing mind games with me. He is a very bad influence in our familys life. Even when I couldnt afford the support I couldnt see him due to his father! basically, now I have my own place and I am actively seeking employment now I need some help I dont know where to start I have no idea where to start. There have been multiple examples of child custody exchanges ending badly, often in tragedy. I have gave the social services a copy of my proposed supervisors, 6 times via email, and they have ignored it. He sends the police to my home on his visitations to come get my daughter and I refuse. My ex made me keep my kids at my moms (even though the court order didnt say that) then he just wouldnt let me see them at all. I had a lawyer tell me last year I let too much time go by and its too late to do anything about it now. Police will try to work toward a peaceful resolution on scene but dont expect a NC police officer to arrest just because little wasnt returned on time. Please help me, with step-by-step instructions on what to do. Heres my suggestion. So what if the father moved away to Prescott Az when his daughter was 4 years old never contaced her or paid his child support not a penney I have filed against him several times they can never locate him. Burke: SOMETIMES the behavior will pass. Is it my fault she pays $2,200 a month in rent, drives an Audi Q7, likes to shop at luxury stores? Thanks. Joseph Cordell, Principal Partner, licensed in MO and IL only. Thew cops say they cannot force her to comply and that you , WILL HAVE TO TAKE HER TO COURT because it is CIVIL which is bullchit and of course it will cost you attorney fees and then when you get to court she may only recieve a slap on the wrist if that. Child custody arrangements are among the most emotional and contentious negotiations a person can enter into. Required fields are marked *. If he was doing all that physical abuse you would have had the evidence to put him in jail. I now it seems long but you probable would be better of waiting six more years dont worry it will go fast I promise you that hang in there god will protect you. My divorce ruined me. The judge ordered her to give me kids for thanksgiving week,and Christmas 2 weeks. It says he will have to give you back that missed time and pay your lawyer fees, so dont be scared. On her 9th birthday, I allowed my daughter father to spend time with her. If I had my kids that weekend and I was drinking and driving him around well okay.. Wont happen. I (designated representative) pickup and drop off children at set location. I just want you to ask yourself that one question: Do you really know what you are doing when you refuse to send child support? I just wanted to help stop the trend of thinking only custodial mothers alienate. Answer (1 of 11): First, I hope you have a good attorney that you stay in communication with, daily if necessary. And she sold our house,never gave me my share,move far away,lied. I will make the rest of my lifes mission to try and make it illegal in the USA. Please try again. Her excuse was that she has a work obligation. BRITTANY, no but you want to file for custody asap before she does. Create your family's parenting schedule Generate a customized parenting plan View and print the time calculation graphs Track and journal what actually happens Be prepared for mediation and court Use phone, tablet and computer apps Fathers are just as bad about alienating their kids from their other parent. Theres little sympathy for a former abuse victim. BRITTANY. She pulls visits because she thinks Im unstable. In my case, we both have shared custody only she has residential custody. A court order that mandates or prohibits conduct is typically executable through the police. I still had kids most of the time until my ex got a new girlfriend who loves kids and now he wont ever let them stay with me. Good Luck w all! No representation is made that the quality of the legal services to be performed is greater than the quality of legal services performed by other lawyers. Christina Sapiano. Words from experienceI can tell you first hand that this is correct. I have been in your shoes. I was with my ex for 3 years n 6mthns n he cheated on me so we split, before he left me, we were planing to get married in the future, I loved him so much but I became tired of him lying to me every time he opens his mouth, I went into search for help in the internet, I tried many different spells from almost every place locally as well as online and none of them worked, I almost gave up hope because I thought i will never see my lover again forever, one day i saw some testimony about this powerful spell caster Great zula i emailed him and i asked him to help me bring back my lover and he did A Lover Spell for me And after some days, my lover returned back to me Id like to say that i got a positive result from (greatzula@yahoo.com) ever since i used his love spell, my lover have learned to appreciate me more and more day by day, and he doesnt take me for granted. There is lots of grey in the law when it comes to this subject. I have a question. New Delhi, Feb 25 (PTI) The Delhi government has approached the Delhi High Court seeking direction on whether a prisoner on custody parole for several weeks or the government authorities need to. Its just awful and my heart hurts every minute. Can he get into trouble from withholding his son. All of this is very stressful, especially to your kids. Police station child custody exchange: When you truly feel in danger and fear for the safety of your child, a police station is the ideal place for an exchange. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander! The sheriff came out and found it to be nothing but simple parental discipline. Because of this I can not exercise my court ordered parenting time. Hey mikeI know exactly what youre talking about. I myself am going trough the same thing. I just want to see my daughter with no problems and live life happily without him. I just nee honesty from people like yourself. I live in fairfax with my sever year old daughter and there is a court order for visitation for her dad to pick her up every other week. I know this is dads divorce site but I am nothing like the moms you have to deal with. Good luck everybody! No one was struck by gunfire, police said. So now she is 16 years old and he started private messaging her trying to talk her in to moving with him. Jerrad Ahrens licensed in NE and IA only. What does your current custody/visitation say? At the meeting location . Wants to change it every week to accommodate his drama. Shame on both of you. How many $3 gallons of milk do you buy weekly? Her mother refuses to give me her address therefore I have no idea where me child is located. But every time I confront him about any of it he denies all of it. Thus, you can use that ti establish that there is no parent child relationship. Not because youre being generous, or because you got paid a little extra to spare like youd toss to a homeless man on the corner, not because a court ordered you to do so, but because its your responsibility without expecting praise or over-the-top thank you notes in return. 9 mins read. Get your child into counseling asap. Can you outline for me how the motion should read to compel the judge to act? 0:57. HE HAS AN ATTORNEY AND THE GAL is bias. Now things was rocky all through the battle . My ex took my son while we were still married and disappeared. As discussed above, child custody is a difficult subject to negotiate and even after an agreement is reached, the child custody exchange can still be complicated. Ignoring his tantrum is the very best thing you can do. Offer to pick the children up. Shes been charged with child abandonment and found guilty of neglect by DCFS. Dont give up. The only thing that could make a difference is a blood test. Will I get in trouble for kidnapping? I am going through the same thing and iy sucks. he then does not return her, he removes her from school during his non placement time and keeps her for 3 to 4 days( no knowledge of where she is staying) . Unreal. You can give me whatever legal jargon or quote whatever statue. SAFE. I can believe that I have my kids mom violate over over even right now out state Ive reported and reported always seems some.excuse to not believe except papers I even finally had pay 50 for stamp but I called cops everyday one week so now the report cant be denied or doubted questio ok I had got custody my son in fam c.f. He says I wont get her back since I violated a court order and there no chance I will get her back! Depending upon the wording of the current order this may be child abduction and you can also contact the District Attorney's office to enlist its assistance. Search, Browse Law A work obligation? I have 50/50 custody in which my son switches houses every week, which has never been a problem, and my girlfriend has an order that basically has no specific times, but states that both parents have to agree to the visitation. My wifes ex has full custody recently he decided to let one of the girls age 11 move in with us . you do mean MEN AND WOMEN right that find it difficult to understand. Let me know if you can help! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. My husband is suppose to get his daughter one day during the week and every other weekend. Two weeks pasted it was my court ordered weekend and I went to her rental house at the court ordered time and date. I can never get in touch with him by phone. The judges here in alabama are corrupt! we got him a phone so I could know he was OK and hes been gone 5 days and the last two day I havent heared from him I texted dad and nothing what should I do, Ok Im 12 and my mom wont let me go live with my dad I live in waco texas with my mom my dad lives in west texas on Saturday June 6 I ask my mom can I live with my dad and she said no and I found that I can go live with my dad if Im twelve with out no questions asked because texas laws state that I can live with a parent with mine own interest but one of my parents have to make a motion and my mom wont of course but my dad may if I get to see him before the end of summer, Your dad needs to get an attorney but that does not mean the judge will grant you want you want. Shes been in a hotel for all we know because she hasnt called to check on the child. My order says I have visitation every other Friday-Sunday, but this still happened to me!! That has been refused. 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